Benavente once said: “Life is like a fable, its value lies not in length, but in content.”
The longer we live, the more insights we gain in this world. Having seen the ups and downs of life, we become more sensitive to it.
Everyone wants a comfortable life. To achieve that, we need to learn to let go of unnecessary people and things. For the rest of my life, be a “deaf and mute” person, asking three questions less.
Aunt Wang is 67 years old with two married sons. As the saying goes, every family has its own problems.
The elder son got married first, and their relationship with his wife wasn’t great. They had many conflicts and arguments. Initially, Aunt Wang tried to mediate, but her good intentions were often misunderstood.
Eventually, Aunt Wang decided to let go. With time, she found life more enjoyable and relaxed.
Aunt Wang said, “Now that I’m old and useless, let them solve their relationship issues on their own. I won’t meddle, to avoid becoming the villain.”
After hearing Aunt Wang’s words, one might resonate. In reality, many people face similar situations. As we age, we must simplify our lives. By decluttering, our surroundings become better. In life, reducing stress is a form of wisdom.
Don’t Ask About Irrelevant Matters
Albert Schweitzer once said: “My life principle is to turn work into pleasure and pleasure into work.”
Everyone has their own domain. We should focus on our lives and areas. Don’t waste time on unnecessary people and things.
In this world, there aren’t many who genuinely wish you well. People are selfish, so focus on yourself rather than others. Pleasing yourself is more satisfying than pleasing others.
Life is an adventure. Learn to simplify it by letting go of unnecessary burdens. Only then can you embark on your journey effortlessly.
Don’t Ask About Unpleasant Things
Franz Kafka said: “We should face life with a smile, no matter what.”
Most of the time, we pressure ourselves. Our unhappiness is often self-inflicted. There are many worthwhile things in the world to explore.
Don’t dwell on unhappy people or things. When something makes you unhappy, there’s no need to dig deeper.
Life is short. Spend time on things and people you love. Only then will you experience more joy. If you fret every day, you won’t be happy.
Life is a race. Compete with others and with yourself. When you run fast, you hear the wind; when you run slow, you hear gossip.
Therefore, focus on yourself on this journey of life. Your life will become more wonderful.
Don’t Ask About Others’ Family Affairs
Sometimes, we like to gossip, but we must remember not to discuss others’ family matters casually. That’s disrespectful.
Every family has its own problems and sorrows. Don’t get too involved in others’ family conflicts. As an outsider, refrain from judging others’ lives.
When you focus on yourself, your life will improve. If you overly concern yourself with others, you’ll achieve nothing.
For the rest of our lives, let’s be “deaf and mute.” Don’t care too much about irrelevant matters, don’t take unhappy things too seriously, and learn to control your emotions. This way, your life will get better, and you’ll encounter more excitement.
Don’t worry too much about others’ lives. Pleasing yourself is the key.