“I Finally Blocked My Mother” Not All Relatives Deserve Forgiveness

There was a very popular TV series called “Ode to Joy.”

In this series, Fan Shengmei’s mother was very biased, favoring her son over her daughter.

Many times, when the son got into trouble, the mother made the daughter pay for him.

If the daughter refused, the mother would blame her, even though she never cared about her daughter.

In real life, such situations are very common:

Last year, a neighbor’s older brother faced a similar situation, where his parents favored his younger brother and never cared about him.

The older brother worked hard outside, but always had to give money to the younger brother.

The younger brother just played games at home, while the parents catered to his every need.

When the older brother was asked for money to buy a house for the younger brother, he gave $60,000, saying it was for his girlfriend’s dowry.

His mother, angry, insisted the money should go to the brother’s house instead.

Feeling hurt and angry, remembering how his parents treated him before, he finally blocked his mother.

Sometimes, not all relatives deserve forgiveness or love.

In life, everyone has their limits, even your own children.

So, don’t do things too harshly, or you might burn bridges.

Some children grow up and never return home, not even a phone call, labeled as unfilial.

Most of these children were not allowed to study by their parents.

Sometimes parents drive their children away, leaving them lonely.

If parents are good to their children, most likely, the children will be good to them too.

Sometimes you realize your friends are better than family.

Like in “Ode to Joy,” Fan Shengmei’s friends helped her more than her own mother.

When facing difficulties, parents often neglect their children, expecting them to help and support siblings.

Sometimes, a good friend is more valuable than a family member.

Parental favoritism is unforgivable. Why should they treat others better than you?

Many children have unhappy childhoods due to parental favoritism.

When siblings make mistakes, parents often favor one over the other.

Leaving an unfair home environment can be liberating.

As you grow older, you realize who’s good to you and reciprocate that kindness.

Not all parents prioritize their children.

Be grateful to those who treat you well, whether they are family, friends, or strangers.

If family treats you unfairly, cherish good friends.

Not all relatives deserve your kindness.