The Importance of Women’s Financial Independence in Modern Society

Why should a girl work so hard?

Women don’t need to earn a lot of money. The most important thing is to find a good man to marry.

From childhood to adulthood, there are always voices telling women not to strive too hard. The crucial thing is to find a decent man in their twenties, get married, have children, and live without worries.

It’s like a woman’s destiny is to be a homemaker, and her gender is naturally an advantage.

However, in real life, even if a woman has always held such beliefs, at a certain age, she will realize that this may not be true.

Life doesn’t favor women just because of their gender. They might not necessarily find a responsible man, even if they can marry a man who is willing to support them, that kind of life might not be fulfilling.

Without money, it’s impossible to enjoy single life.

After graduating, everyone will have a period of single life to some extent.

During this time, when you have complete freedom at the best age, you can fully control your time.

But if you don’t strive for progress and have limited income, the things you like such as cosmetics, clothes, shoes, travel, will all be out of reach.

Even if you really like a piece of clothing, you can only let go. Even if you want to go somewhere, you simply don’t have enough budget. Even if you want to participate in interesting activities, you won’t be able to afford it.

So, during this beautiful time, poverty and hardship will accompany you. Even if you are single, you still need financial stability. Without money, everything is just a compromise. You might want someone to save you, but only you can work hard and have a good income to make your single life different.

With money, you can afford what you like, travel where you want, and live without constantly worrying about others’ opinions.

Without independence, you might end up in a hasty marriage.

Imagine when you are financially independent and don’t rely on anyone, you have the freedom to live on your own, manage your expenses, and have more choices in life.

Not only how to live every day, but also the choice to not rush into a marriage you don’t want.

When you reach a certain age, your family and those around you will constantly pressure you to get married. If you still live with them and depend on them, you will lack the confidence to resist.

At that time, you can only go on arranged blind dates and marry someone they think is suitable, whether you are willing or not, just to succumb to the pressure.

Without your own strength, you will be bound and controlled by others.

On the contrary, if you work hard, have a good income, can afford rent or even a house, and manage your daily expenses, you don’t have to live with anyone, and don’t have to constantly consider others’ opinions.

You can follow your own wishes and slowly find someone you truly like and who is suitable for you.

Marriage will generally be very challenging.

In the eyes of many, once a woman is married, everything is settled.

In reality, your man may not have the capability to take responsibility for the family. Even if he does, if there is a significant disparity in your abilities, he might not respect you.

For women who don’t earn money, some are pampered, but most are just struggling to make ends meet. They toil for the family, yet their contributions often go unnoticed. Many people only care about who earns money to support the family.

In this world, marriage is not a haven. To have a happy marriage and be respected by those around you, you need to have some strength, be on equal footing with your partner, and have your own strengths.

When you can earn money, buy what you like, and contribute to the family, the people around you, and even his family, won’t dare to disregard you or overlook your efforts.

Moreover, if your marriage encounters problems, you won’t be at a loss on how to continue your life.

As a woman, always remember, you must earn money well.

To gain more confidence, to take responsibility for the family with your loved one, and to set a good example for your children.

It’s also so that no matter what happens, you can always stand tall.

Earning money may not be easy, but nothing in this world is. If you don’t endure the hardships of earning money, you will endure the hardships of life and marriage. When you understand the importance of earning money, although it may be a bit tough, you can better control your life.

In this life, a woman’s best sense of security doesn’t come from others, but from herself.

When you are financially stable, you will feel more secure as the years go by, and life will treat you a little better.